The usual girl babble, my girls, diet, exercise, life, boys, dating 101, and all of my crazy adventures. Basically my life and if you're in it, you're in my blog. I have the worse dating luck or HAD the worse dating luck. I thought I was cursed bc I have failed in all relationships until now :) Yep, back on the LOVE TRAIN -this time with a keeper, a good ole country boy from NC! Every girl needs a few things in her life: girlfriends, yoga, shoes, and a country boy ;) love you Matty muwah
Monday, January 30, 2012
State of the Union
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
SMILE
chow
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Taxes
Dear Bills,
You will be paid off sooner then later. Thank you for being patient and allowing me to make small payments each month! whoo oooo I feel like celebrating! Thank you Martha! You are the best!
saweet!
Spotify
Jam on ~
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Travel Bug
Then off to road trip it to Boston...kill two birds with one stone...yoga workshop with Kathryn Budig, and adventure of driving up there, hanging out in a pretty cool city! Bangin!
SO there it is...my travel bug for the next 8 months...ooohhh soooo excited to see it all!! and it's us we're talking about...we're gonna have fun no matter where we are! :)
~Go get lost~
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Really MSN? Really?
This is a real article on MSN.com today...My usual morning routine checking the news on msn read about the cruise ship, about the teen expelled for dressing like a girl...and I come across this - Geeze-a-pete. Anything that has a picture of the K clan is not news and should be restricted to TMZ or Star or some other smut news...not that I'm disregarding TMZ and others...but MSN? really? ugggggg.
How Long Should You Be Dating Before You Get Married?
You need more than a few months to see your worst sides.
It can takes a good six months or so to remove the love-colored glasses and begin to really see the other person, flaws and all. That’s because the longer you steadily date, the more you get out of your comfort zones and settle into a routine—and that’s when your true personalities emerge. Is he lazy about doing household chores? Is he disrespectful to your family and friends? Experiencing different scenarios together can help size up whether you two are right for each other, says Linda Miles, PhD, author of The New Marriage.
You need time for the early-stage dopamine haze to clear.
This is the brain chemical that’s responsible for triggering that head-over-heels feeling when you first get together. Dopamine makes us feel overly positive, which can mask the fact that maybe your union doesn’t have long-term legs, says Miles. That high usually starts to wear off in six months to a year, and those behaviors you thought you could live with or were even cute and quirky—for example, his forgetfulness or penchant for being 10 minutes late for everything—suddenly become super annoying potential deal breakers.
It takes time to find out if your future plans sync up.
Before you can determine if your love will go the distance, you need enough time to go by to make sure you have similar outlooks on handling money, whether you want kids, where you want to live, and other crucial thoughts about the future. “To sustain a relationship, couples have to share common goals, values, and interests along with sexual attraction and emotional maturity,” says Christine Meinecke, PhD, author of Everybody Marries the Wrong Person.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Waaaaa
Found it..well matty did..laying in his lap watching a movie...scratching my head, out pulls my first gray hair! Waaaaa
I'm not even 30 yet, waaaaa
Uggggg
We did it
Oh yeah jogged up the emerald isle bridge!!! Even though it was cold super windy....hb and I did the damn thing. I'm still sore but so glad I did this...next time you google the word motivation or motivator you'll see hb's picture! Thanks girl.
Next time you want something DO IT
Bags
I was walking to my car thursday after work thinking...how am I supposed to pack light for trips if I can't even pack light for work? I have my purse, yoga mat, and my super heavy pink vs bag which had books clothes food....why ohe why must I look like a bag lady?
I guess simplifying my stuff hasn't caught up to all areas yet...hmmmm
Breathe through the pain.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Up Up and OVER EI
So lived on the island from what 89-03...moved, now I"m back....I've driven over this bridge probably a million times, but I have never attempted to walk/jog over it :) oh yes!! This is taking place tomorrow morning 0630...me, matty, and hb...set off for this 6 mile or so adventure...grant it...i will not jog the whole thing...but how cool is this gonna be to hit the bridge just as the sun comes up .. eeeek.. i'm getting uber excited...goosebump excited!!! :) :) :) Wish us luck...report to follow.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
I do love to SHOP
today I took my lunch break, met Matty at the mall, got coffee, and shopped our butts off! On sale stuff of course...I had no intention what so ever to shop and spend money, but damn it feels good. Retail therapy totally works ahhh! The plan was to hang out in the book store, drink coffee, and look for yoga books...then we were just gonna "walk around"...lol ha ha ha that's funny!
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
2012 Resolutions
I'm taking a whole new avenue this year...no extensive list, no rules, just breath and be happy...so, here are my "resolutions" for 2012:
1. BE HAPPY
2. Be the best lil yogi I can be
3. Don't go to jail
4. Live Healthy/make healthy choices
5. Cross things off my bucket list
6. Be kind to Mother Earth
And that's basically it.
Monday, January 9, 2012
Polar Plunge 2012
Just wanted to update you all..
Have a wonderful week and be kind to the earth ~
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
New Year Updates
So excited for this year!! So much is going on, so much to look forward to...and I turn 30 this year.. along with all my fellow Aries buddies and everyone born in 1982! WE are gonna ROCK THIS YEAR YO~
ALong with 30, I'll be a certified yoga instructor come April....Warrior Dash is back in NC this year, Cooper River Bridge Run (maybe)....mom turns the big 60, taking a trip to Kentucky and hope to cross things off my bucket list like the Bourbon Distillery tour...sky diving...I've also been adding things to the list like a foam party....
So new year means another sabbatical from the booze. Day 4 today! Instead of just a month, I'm trying to go until March 17th...so is Matty!!
Matty UPDATE---------!~ So we finally did it, finally broke down and moved in together about 2 months ago! I'm back on the island... or should I say WE ARE back on EI with our 8 year old son DRAKE! It's been wonderful being back on EI - we ride the bikes everywhere...walk to the beach with Drake...super close to HB, KB, and BJ! ahhhh Now if only money grew on trees life would be perfect :)
Ohhh Santa brought us a Juicer!! so we have been playing with that.. making new concoctions...yum... can't wait to do more...
Bartending yet again! at The ocean club in Indian Beach! LOVE LOVE LOVE IT HERE!!! I get to work with my friends...it's super fun and easy and a beautiful location... oh and it's attachted to the Spa...and I get all the fruit and cheese I want!! nom nom nom
I think that's pretty much it...my life consists of YOGA, HOME LIFE, Work, Work, Friends...and planning our next adventure...stay tuned.
MUWAH
Plunging again
2nd year in a row for this girl!!! I love it!!! So much more participation this year from my family, friends, and co-workers!! thank YOU!!!!!
so far we are at $775 raised for the special Olympics! saweet!
Will keep you all posted after the weekend!
thanks..
until next time ~